Bellippady Narasimha
Rai 23/10/ 1918 -05/05/2000
Bellippady Narasimha Rai was born on the 23rd
of October 1918, the third son of 3 brothers and 2 sisters , to parents
Bellippady Surya Maanakke Rai and Kullamugeru Sankappa Rai.
The ancestors of Bellippady Surya Maanakke Rai , had
settled in Kambula bettu and Surya a long time ago, having inherited the
Surya , Kambula bettu and Pudottu, properties of 2000 mooras of rice as a
dowry from the initial founder of the Bellippady family - Bellippady
Narasimha Rai - whose daughter he had given in marriage to his own
nephew. He left behind the remaining property of 18000 mooras of rice to
the Bellippady family as was the practice in those days according to the
aliya santhana custom.
Bellippady Surya Narasimha Rai was a person who
loved his Bellippady family and it’s well being to such an
extent , that he was solely responsible for all the members of the
Bellippady family getting their rightful share/ownership of the properties
due to them. In the year 1952, when the Bellippady properties were still
undivided and ownership not divided, Bellippady Surya Narasimha Rai, was
approached by some of the family members to help remedy this matter. In
spite of his busy schedule as an advocate and farmer shuttling between
Mangalore and his inherited property in Surya, Narasimha Rai went to
court on behalf of all the Bellippady family members for the benefit of all,
using his personal funds and time to ensure that his Bellippady family
members were secure by getting what was due to them.
Bellippady as a family was “Split” until the early
1990’s, with most of it’s members not even knowing each other. Following
the request of some family members, it was Bellippady Surya Narasimha Rai,
who united the family by forming a Trust, called “The Bellippady Family
Trust”, comprising of senior members of all the 3 branches of the
family.
Thanks to his and his wife Aerya Sulochana Rai’s hospitable
nature, Bellippady Surya Narasimha Rai’s house in Mangalore was an open
house to all members, tenants and workers of the Bellippady family and
Barya village were Surya is located. There were many fruitful
“Panchatiges” held in his house, innumerable “Ponnu Thoopuna, (seeing the
girl before an alliance is finalized) and countless Podus (alliances)
were finalized in this house. Many Madmals,(brides) were dressed in his
house en route to their marriage. Quite a few of the Bellippady youngsters
went to school from his house, in addition to those who would come for their
daily meals, while staying in the nearby Bunts’ hostel. If anyone from
Bellippady grama or Barya grama, were hospitalized in Mangalore, all 3
meals of the day for the patient as well as caretaker would promptly be sent
from his house to the hospital.
His generosity was not confined to his immediate family
alone. Surya , his inherited share of the Bellipady property, was a remote
village, with no road access until the 1960’s. It was he who got the road
from Surya to Uppinnangady constructed out of his own personal funds in
the early 1960’s. He was also responsible for setting up of a school in
Barya village.
Though an advocate, he never practiced his profession for
money. On the contrary, he would pay for the stamp paper, court fees etc.
out of his own pocket, if his client could not afford it. In most cases he
would try to sort out the issues amicably, rather than take it to court,
thereby saving his client considerable time and money. If convinced it was
a no win case, he would advise his clients accordingly. A comment by one of
his advocate colleagues is worth mentioning here:
‘Vokilere, irege baduv ijjinda, case lene yenk korle’
(If you don’t need the money, please refer the cases to me ,
I need it.)
The New Bellippady Family House at Bellippady , inaugurated
on the 18th of May, 1998, was built by the Bellippady Family
Trust
under
Bellippady Surya Narasimha Rai’s guidance and leadership along with the
unconditional support - financial as well as moral - of all the
Bellippady family members. This building also houses a ‘gudi’ for Lord
Venkataramana, the family deity of the Bellippady family, to replace the
original Temple in Beliyur grama on the banks of the Nethravathi that had
been washed away by floods in the early nineteen twenties.
Now, and forever, the New Bellippady Family House will stand
as testimony to Bellippady Surya Narasimha Rai’s love for his Bellippady
family and their love and respect for him in return.